One of my persistent difficulties with the Chronicles of Darkness - as well as games with similar mechanics, like some of the *World games - is the centrality of Aspirations/Obsessions or Aspiration-like mechanics to experience-earning. I like the idea, but in practice, I feel like players often struggle to come up with ones that they're happy with, and I think this problem is magnified when they're new to the system or setting. They ask, quite reasonably, how they're supposed to know what their character wants when they don't know enough about the world or the people in it to make that call....

So, a Female Fianna and a female Glasswalker want to get officially married...and i been thinking, how exactly does a wedding takes place between tribes?. i dont imagine them going to a human church.
is there a "Partnership ritual"? or something? like an official one...

I'm wanting to make a mage who's main goal is to create a sword that will make him a name remembered through out history. He's obsessed with the ideal of perfecting himself and sees the symbol of a sword as a perfect quest to drive him to his peak. The process of forging the sword would also be a great work of forging himself.

So I was hoping for some ideals on what type minor goals and quests and mysterys as lead ups to this ultimate work and what skills could he master to help him. Like I was thinking could there be some using the rules of making a soul stone to make like a super...