More often than not spirits really don't like vampires, well maybe banes are more prone to discuss, but other spirits are often portrayed with a general bias against the childrens of Caine.

Usually when a vampire mage wants to manipulate a spirit he use Way of the Spirit Manipulation, which force the spirits to bend to the caster's will, so it's pretty natural that a spirits, bound against its will by Thaumaturgy will not have much love for his master.

On the other way, Kolduns don't binds spirits, but usually bargains with them, and the whole point of Koldun sorcery...