OP, I share every opinion you just posted so mich that it's scary. It's like im posting, if i couldn't see your nick and date of pot i would think it was one of my old topics.

As i share your preferences, including the OoH tradition and their view on magick (but not their ritualistic practices) i recommend you to use psionics, cjaos magick and martial arts as practices. Instruments could be gestures, energy,meditation, eye contact,ordeals and exertions,voice and vocalisation,weapons.
I see that you have already chosen the best practices and instruments, so I'm not quite sure...